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epouseomrani: 5 Qualities You Want In Your Husband Every woman...

Wed, 22 May 2013 13:35:56 -0400

5 Qualities You Want In Your Husband

Every woman has her own list of qualities that her future husband should poses- for some it can be appearance, for some personality, for some education- and the list goes on. But what really matters in the long run? experience has shown that looks fade away, and people change…so how can you make the right decision when you don’t know what are some of the qualities that the person you will share your life and have a family shall posses?

This list below is a part of Islamic Learning Materials that will help you see things clear because life is a journey and you better share it with someone worth it.

1- Piety (The quality of being religious) . The most important quality you should search in a man is for him to be closest to Allah, and how good of a muslim that person it is.

2- Good Character. When it comes to qualities your future husband should have, character is essential. When you like or love someone you tend not to see their faults and mistakes, instead you have this beautiful image of him in your mind. But you should be rational and see the red flags- such as quick temper, because they may hurt you or himself.

What does a good character in a man includes? 1. Charitable 2. Refrains from taking bad about others 3. Is patient in times of stress.

3- Intelligent/ Wisdom- A man can be really nice and lovely person but he can still be a fool. You may go ahead and marry him but it’s going to take a lot of struggle for you to make the marriage with a fool work. Keep in mind that education does not equal intelligence. How many university graduates you have seen that are far away from being intelligent or professionals.

4- Ability to Support You- It’s the men job to take care and support his wife. He doesn’t have to be one of the top doctors, lawyers or engineer, he just needs to be a good husband. Even though is his responsibility to take care of you, it’s your responsibility to decide if you can settle down with someone that can support you or not. How much support you need? just remember that everyone goes through tough times but with the help of Allah, everything will get better.

5- Last of the qualities you should search is Physical Attraction. It’s last on the list for a reason. It’s a stupid mistakes to put this first on the list. Looks, culture, race, or nationality, should not be deciding factors. If you meet someone with all the qualities above, you should not reject him only because he has different culture, race or nationality or not being handsome enough.

Remember, Nobody is perfect. He has imperfection and so do you!

“في بحر من البشر، عيني ستبحث عنك دائما” In the sea of people, my eyes will always search for...

Wed, 22 May 2013 13:34:41 -0400

“في بحر من البشر، عيني ستبحث عنك دائما”

In the sea of people, my eyes will always search for you.

henryandhisbrain: Dear Yahoo, If you would like Tumblr users to like you, remove the post limit and...

Wed, 22 May 2013 13:32:27 -0400

henryandhisbrain:

Dear Yahoo,

If you would like Tumblr users to like you, remove the post limit and word limit on messages.

If you place ads on our dash or charge for use every month, there will be a war. You have an army. We have a hulk.

Regards

Tumblr Users

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Alhamdulilah

egyptianprincess: I want a hot body but I also want pizza and hot wings. Do you see my problem?

Wed, 22 May 2013 10:05:16 -0400

egyptianprincess:

I want a hot body but I also want pizza and hot wings. Do you see my problem?

I think I know most of the reasons of why I am who I am now

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I think I know most of the reasons of why I am who I am now

mooshnuggies: when you want to talk to people but dont want to bother them

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mooshnuggies:

when you want to talk to people but dont want to bother them

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shavingprivateryan: my youngest sister got detention and a letter home because a boy said to her...

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shavingprivateryan:

my youngest sister got detention and a letter home because a boy said to her “girls don’t fart” so she sat on him and farted i’m actually dying

your sister is my hero

stillwatersofconsciousness: radish is a really accurate name for a vegetable because they’re pretty...

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stillwatersofconsciousness:

radish is a really accurate name for a vegetable because they’re pretty cool but they’re not that cool

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What if they just treat everybody like they’re extraordinary… Does that still make you ordinary

"We have three kinds of family. Those we are born to, those who are born to us, and those we let into..."

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“We have three kinds of family. Those we are born to, those who are born to us, and those we let into our hearts.”

- Simi (via emilykattalakis)

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craplos: ladies. be careful when u wear spaghetti straps. it might distract the boys. they’ll start...

Wed, 22 May 2013 02:30:03 -0400

craplos:

ladies. be careful when u wear spaghetti straps. it might distract the boys. they’ll start thinking of spaghetti. they will get hungry. they will stop at nothing to get their spaghetti.